
The word ‘refugee’ has become something that arouses intense emotions, whether positive or negative, in the hearts of those using or hearing it. That word has been part of my existence since I first learned to speak. My parents were refugees and belonged to the ‘community’ ofy refugees in England. They had fled from Nazi Germany where their existence was considered an affront to the purity of the Aryan race and their lives were at risk. They were able to escape because relatives in England were prepared to put up the financial guarantees required in order to enable them to enterthe country, though their parents were not so fortunate and were eventually murdered by the Nazis.
The process of naturalisation in England was long and arduoous, so that my parents were granted British citizenship only after residing in the country for ten years, during which they had to prove their honesty and loyalty. That was no problem for them. As law-abiding citizens they grew to love England and all it stood for – decency, tolerance and making acontribution to society at large.
My parents were orthodox Jews and adhered to the set of ancient laws and customs that characterize Jews all over the world. Such precepts as ‘thou shalt not kill, thou shalt not steal’ and ‘thou shalt not bear false witness,’ which also form the basis of Western society, came naturally to them, along with ‘love thy neighbour as thyself.’ This mindset and general attitude fitted in well with the wider non-Jewish society that was England at that time, namely, during and after the Second World War.
That was the environment in which I grew up. My parents and their friends spoke English, but with foreign accents, which caused me some embarrassment at times, so that I came to dread Parents’ Evenings at my high school. The idea that I might one day go to university seemed a distant dream to my parents, but eventually, with the aid of the British education system and my own efforts, that dream came true.
I did experience some antisemitism, it’s true, and my school prevented me and my Jewish friends from applying for places at Oxford and Cambridge. But while attempting to discourage me, they could not keep me from applying to other universities.
My sisters and I went to grammar school, wore the school uniform and conformed, more or less, to the norms and requirements imposed on us. My parents continued to adhere to the precepts of the Jewish religion, eating in accordance with the age-old requirements regarding the separation of meat and dairy foods, not working on the Sabbath day (Saturday) and attending synagogue services regularly. On Saturday mornings my family would walk to the synagogue and return home for lunch. I’m sure all our non-Jewish neighbours could see us in our Saturday-best clothes and knew who we were, namely, Jews. But no one ever said anything to us or expressed displeasure at our alien presence in their midst. As far as we were concerned, we weren’t all that alien.
My parents did not expect to be supported by the state, and worked hard to be able to buy a house and provide my sisters and me with a good home and nourishing food. They had both grown up in Germany in homes with a comfortable income, but adapted cheerfully to the straitened circumstances of their life in England, glad to be able to benefit from the country’s rich culture and eager to ‘fit in’ to the wider society.
England’s Jewish community, whether of refugee origin or longer-established, has made an immense contribution to England’s culture and economy, accruing many honours and public recognition for their efforts. In my own case I’m proud to be able to say that my father was awarded the OBE for his contribution in ameliorating the conditions of Jewish blind people. Many of my contemporaries who are also the children of refugees have gone on to achieve great things in a variety of fields, gaining honours, academic prominence and outstanding careers, often leaving me breathless with admiration and envy.
None of the Jewish refugees of my parents’ generation has rampaged or even demonstrated in order to obtain some kind of support from the state which may or may not have been their right to receive. None of them entered England illegally. Jewish refugees were and are a law-abiding group of people, grateful to have been granted the right to live in peace, eager to assimilate and contribute to the society that has provided them with a safe harbour.








